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Letter to my 14 Year Old Self

Dear 14 Year Old Self,

A lot has happened to you over the course of the past 14 years.  You have grown up and matured, and are finding your place in the world.  Just thought I would write you and tell you where you are in your life right now at age 28.  Things in this world have changed, and so have you.

You don’t have any kids yet, however your two year old niece is teaching you a lot about patience, life, and that things may not be perfect, but they are beautifully imperfect.

When you meet that blonde haired, blue eyed guy who ends up being your rock throughout high school, cherish every moment you have with him, and tell him how you feel, no matter how scared you are.  After you graduate from high school, you will lose touch with him and constantly wonder where he is.

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Keep in better touch with him… Because in about 7 years, you will get a message from his best friend on Facebook that will break your heart, and you will spend a lot of your time wondering why you never told him how you felt.  Don’t make that mistake again, Baby Girl.  Tell him. You never know what he might say, but if it’s not what you want to hear, at least you don’t live your 20’s wondering where he is and what might have been.

It will take all of 30 seconds for 14 years of harbored animosity towards a certain person to melt away.  He will redeem himself.  Just hold on, Baby Girl, and let things go.

I know there is no way your 14 year old mind can wrap around the words I am about to tell you, but believe me, I am in as much disbelief as you are.  You will party your heart out with two members of NSYNC and two members of Backstreet Boys at age 28.  You will feel like you are 14 again, and your fandom will come back with full force.  You even get a tattoo from the current movie they are all in, and every time you look at it, or look at this picture on the background of your Iphone (you’ll learn about those when you get older), you will think back to that weekend and be so grateful that you got to experience what you did.

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Don’t fight it.  Embrace it.  Fandom is not a bad thing.  It’s not just for teenagers.

Your parents are right.  No matter how hard you think about it, you are only 14.  You know nothing about the world.  Your parents have been through it all, and believe me when I say, listen to them.  Don’t give them so much shit, because 99% of the time you did, they were right.

You will get so sick of hearing the three words Let it Go, yet on the other hand you realize no truer words have ever been spoken.

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The admiration you will encounter in the next 10 years for a certain singer will become the opposite of what you hoped for.  The fan site you created for him, along with the future fan sites you create for people, will blow up in your face.  But, life goes on, and you will survive.

Don’t waste your time and money on those stupid Beanie Babies… They won’t be worth the cloth they are crafted out of in 5 years.

Pokemon has made a comeback… Everyone’s still gotta catch them all!

Don’t even let any man, or woman, steal your happiness.  Just because you feel like you’re dying inside, does not mean you won’t make it through.  You will be hurt by someone, but in a few years, Baby Girl, you will find your soul mate.  Try not to let the actions of that guy ruin your teen years, and go to that dance, even when he breaks your heart and tells you he’s going with your best friend.  When he comes back 2 years later, don’t open the door.  Believe me, Baby Girl, it will save you loads of heartache.

You will have more tattoos than you ever thought you would, and your future husband will be covered in them too.

Stop trading your chips your mom packed in your lunches for the chocolate pudding that girl never wanted to eat.  Believe me, you’ll thank me later.

You are beautiful, in spite of how ugly people treat you.  Don’t let them get to you – be you, and you will go far.  Live your life for you and don’t let anyone try to steal your sunshine.

Tell your friends and family ever day that you love them.  You never know when you see them might be the last time.

In conclusion, don’t live your life to try to please everyone around you.  You do you, Baby Girl, and you will go far.  It’s so strange to me how 14 years has gone by, but it feels like just yesterday when a lot of this stuff happened.  Needless to say, everything will be alright in the end, and you will have your moment to shine, so keep your chin up, your legs closed, and shoot for the moon, even if you miss, you’ll land on a star.

Love Always,

Your 28 Year Old Self

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2 thoughts on “Letter to my 14 Year Old Self

  1. You should also have warned your 14 year old self that Rick Astley was going to make a comeback and to beware of the Rickroll.

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